Death of a Railroad Man

From Watts Funeral Home: Ralph William Milligan, 64 of Kingston, Oklahoma passed away Sunday, November 11, 2012. Ralph was born on January 1, 1948 in Sulphur, Oklahoma to George Milligan and Dorothy Brown Milligan. He graduated from the Byng High School and from East Central University. Ralph served his country in the National Guard before…

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Source of Light

“I always thought that I was the source of light and without me you wouldn’t want to survive…”  One day I was in Walgreens here in Ada, looking for AA batteries. I was scanning the aisles for the battery kiosk when a really beautiful  – I mean amazingly beautiful – woman caught my eye. Wow….

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The Extra Day

Abby had nightmares and talked in her sleep all last night. This morning, her entire body was red and itchy, and her temperature was 102.3˚, so I decided to take her to the hospital. She was so weak, however, that I barely got her, through dragging and crawling, to the living room, where I called…

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Eyeing the Future

As of tomorrow, Abby and I will be married seven years. When I talk with people about marriage, I tell them that I recommend it, which I do. Part of being happily married is luck, but more important is your attitude, both about your daily interaction with your spouse, but also the serious commitment you…

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The Promise of September

Welcome to Autumn 2011. It’s been a stunning year so far, both socially and weatherally. Weatherically? Climatologically! (Spell check says the last one is right.) 2011 is the year Abby and I became grandparents. Also this winter we had record-setting cold and snow. In April, Robert and I went to Utah for a hiking trip….

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Returning the Favor

Few would disagree that a really beautiful image of a mother and her newborn child, properly made, is one of the most significant and wonderful pictures in the lives of all involved. My grandfather, Richard Batten, after whom I am named, made such a photograph of my mother and me in the late summer of…

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No One’s Home

“It’s empty now, no friendly face and nothing lives within, I look around and I find no trace to tell me what has been… “So far I’ve come to find there’s no one here, no life I fear, I came for nothing, they have gone… And nobody’s Home…” ~Kansas That’s how it has felt the last few…

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Watching and Tending

Looking at a forecast, I decided that tonight was the night I needed to burn the brush pile next to the garden. Calm and cool, and following yesterday’s little bit of rain, the night was good for burning. By Thursday, the Weather Service expects fire danger to be high, and we are verging on a…

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